So, as parents, who doesn’t wonder if our
kids are
growing up healthy?
We are bombarded by the media telling us that we have an
obesity epidemic with our
children. We are seeing adults around us blaming their
weight on their
parents and/or
childhood. The
parenting magazines tell us that we need to
limit our kid’s
sugar intake,
increase the fruit and vegetable intake, and follow some other current trend in
diet.
Well, I don't think those articles are written by
parents! Some
kids do
enjoy eating nothing but what you put in front of them. Those
kids never complain and say it
tastes "funny" (or worse!) Those kids say please and thank you. They wipe their
mouths, and
drink all their
milk and
water.... and of course, they're animated (you know cartoons).
In reality, most
kids go through these periods of time when they eat only 1 or 2
foods. Then when they finish that spurt they may
never eat those foods again. In reality, most
kids won't eat
spinach, or
raw broccoli without dipping sauces... oh wait, there's the key. When you’re
teaching your
kids about
healthy eating, remember the key to successful management is: "Never ask those you are in charge of to do anything you would not willingly do yourself."
In my opinion this definitely applies to food and our
kids! If you dip your
carrot sticks, then let your
kids. If you use cheese sauce on your
broccoli then put it on for your
kids too. Having healthy
kids is really more about what you, as parents, grandparents, and extended families eat and how you play.
As you may have guessed, I'm not about preparing a separate
meal for my
son. He eats what we eat, or a slight variation of that. For example, he doesn't like
cooked carrots. So, when I make
cooked carrots he first has to try them (their
tastes change often as kids) then he can substitute them for raw
carrots (something that I don't have to prepare, like
baby carrots).
One of my friends from class, a mother of 4, shared with me an excellent idea. Everyone in her
family has a day of the week to be the
veggie king or queen. On their day they decide what
vegetable is served for
snacks and
meals. The only requirement is that there are 3 different during the day. They can be served in any manner the
child or
adult chooses and with any
snack or
meal.
I might also suggest applying this to
fruits. This would give you 6 total
servings available everyday. Now before you get scared about this cost... remember that the serving size is only
1/2 cup for most fruits and vegetables. Serving sizes do vary on some products like
salad (or lettuce) is 1 cup,
juice is 3/4 cup, and dried
fruits 1/4 cup.
Another common method to encourage kids to partake of a healthy
meal is to use their assistance in preparing it. I often allow my son to stir for me, or retrieve
vegetables from
the garden (or pantry). He is starting to help me measure some ingredients. The point is that
when he helps prepare he gets excited about the meal. When the
meal is new to me, or I'm otherwise not wanting his help in the kitchen I let him assist in presentation. For example, recently we tried a new recipe that was know as Egyptian Summer Stew, so he made a Pharaoh’s mask and helped to set the Table.
As they get older you may let them assist in the planning, or shopping for
meals. Many families find that simply preparing a menu saves money, time, and ensures a healthier
meal. Even a young
child can be allowed to pick one
meal a month and guided through balancing it with
starches, vegetables, complete
proteins, and
fruits.
Anyway, I feel like I'm rambling and lost my point to this entry.
Kids will be
kids. Do not stress when your
child refuses certain foods.... it may or may not pass. There is not one single food that ensures life or death, they can all be substituted! Do not give up. The best way to teach your
kids is to
do it yourself. Try and talk about how you're trying to
eat healthy and how much better you feel when you do!
Above all,
get active. Walk to the park, the school, or around the block. Try pushing your
kids on swings, or playing a game of tag. Remember, the current food pyramid tells us to take steps. This should not be a complete change overnight.
Growing up healthy happens
one step at a time.